be real, be yourself, and remember that not everyone has the same way of communicating, regardless of language. we all want to be friends with the world yet we have to choose the best ones for us, not just anyone can be your best friend. so be honest with yourself too, and be clear about what you want, both sides should know what the other is thinking, be open, that is the best way with western people, just speak your mind directly...
ok, my question, what is the secret of life (well, you said it could be a question with no answer !!) ~~