I don't know clearly,nither.
IN my opinion,its depends on the value of each life.
Different pursuit and interesting ,different friends.
IN today's world ,what is purchased by most people:money,authority.
so __
IF you want to know someone,see his/her friends,in reality.

Find the answer by ourself

It is often said that to open the doors of your heart can get the most true friendship. However, now we have to admit that the world getting smaller, but the distance between people is increasingly far.The confusion of friendship or we could say the confusion of reality appeared in a variety of situations,not only here but also in our real life.So it ll make us think that to find a real friend is more and more difficult.I have many times complained that my friends dont understand me and got angry on them.However ,in this world is a little bit difficult to find a person that have the same aspirations and interests with you.But make friends with different people it also be a happy thing, i think. Understanding and tolerance are very important. And a true friend is missing but need, i suppose.
i hope both you and your friends have a good time:)

secondo ,to have a friend, be a friend . One of things that we should always keep in mind is :
accepting friends as they are ,because he who searches for friends without faults,will never have a
friend. Knowing that the last decades world suffered from THE GROWING INDIVIDUALISM and the
decrease of INTANGIBLE VALUES leaded by materialist ideologies( especially the psychologic analysis which give to every act a sexual interpretation from " Oedipus complex " to "Electra's Complex" )' , which made people hungin' more and more on their own benefits( money,comfort,selfish intersts or privileges ...) and primary needs( food, sex , ..) .

benefits could be a material benefits: for example someone try to be close to you ,just for wealth

or power or ....to use you for his own affairs ,.... and go one .As it could be moral or psycholgic

benefits ,which explain why lot of men aren't looking for frindship with men ( i deduce that you

fell in this problem and it's your motive to ask this question :-) ), and vice versa for women , i think that such behaviour is related to many factors, for example the lack of care ,because every humain being likes to find someone who cares about him,listens to him ,and when he asks him ( how are you ? ) he listens to his answer carefuly , and as males and females have an inborn attraction to each other that makes it easier to find one with this caracteristics from the different sex, and in some ( if it's not the most ) of the cases men search for desire and women search for love ,in such realtion ships the interests are huge , As a result the relation between people of the same sex is affected by the previous factors, ( don't forget the accusation of homosexuality for such frienships in some cultures ) ....

If we talk wbout this issue we will write hundreds of pages .i think that the friendship male/male, female/female is more genuine and sincere in most of the cases ,and the best solution ( as i believe ) is the frienship between life's partners .

i'll finish with this OLD IRISH QUOTE "THERE ARE MANY TYPES OF SHIPS. THERE ARE WOODEN SHIPS ,PLASTIC SHIPS, AND METAL SHIPS. BUT THE BEST AND MOST IMPORTAINT TYPES OF SHIPS ARE FRIENDSHIPS."

nowadys it's difficult to find valuable things
a few whom know the sense of friendship , seriousness, respect
a friend is someone who give without expect smth
now everythings seems in tie with the trade means GIVES and TAKES