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♥ what will you do if you have a friend who cheats you behind your back?
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genevieve 珍娜薇
on 17:18, 19/08/2008 - 1183 views
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ophelia
that's really a good question!!!
i will take revenge of course...cheats that friend more seriously
so that friend will be ashamed of him or herself and won't think that i am easily betrayed :)
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kelly
hmm,maybe we should talk first .and it depends on what kind of cheat.if it is based on our good and doesnt harm someone very much,i think that's fine .it wont harm our friendship.because everyone has right to do something whether it is right or not .we should learn to how to forgive. but if it really hurt someone ,and she or he is not the person i can trust ,then i will say goodbye to her or him .because we cant let the person who always cheats us be our side .
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DUO.朵
well, I don't like to predict something about friedship.if a person become my friend,I will trust him orher heart and soul.friendship is like a plant of slow growth.so I don't like the plant to be die.but if my best friend cheats me,I must remove the plant from my heart and never never let them come in.
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dowidiwi
I'll first confront them. then I'll put myself in their shoes. If I decide that I wouldn't have done what they did... then i would discontinue my friendship with them.
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china@hong kon
i stop thinging of him and this qeustion let me cray be cause my boy friend he always say i m bad sometimes he go and let he ohhhhh my god
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~JuNe~
asked her/him why he/she did it to me?
try to speak calm down each other...so the situation become clearly...
maybe he/she have his/her own reason to do that...
nobody's perfect..
and i dont want one of my friend become my enemy oneday.. so i will forgive her/him...
just talking n explain everything clearly...
from every problem, our friendship can become stronger...
^____________^
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TakaC_moto
First I'll think it's unbelieveble.. but then I must accept this truth..
but.. if he/she is my best friend, maybe I'll sad for awhile and try to be friend again..
because we have so many memories.. and he/she would have difficulty, that one is reluctant to mention..
let it be passed..
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cindy
maybe he or she has reasons to do that,u must know why did he or she do it,if u cannot accept his explain,i think he is not ur true friend,maybe it is the best way to leave away
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Kevin
maybe he have some secrets or problems one doesn't want to reveal .but deception is a shameful act.If he apologize, I will forgive him.There is a Chinese old saying goes"To be able to mend one's ways is the greatest wirtue.To err is human."
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jillian
maybe i will forgive him or her.sometimes everyone can make mistakes.include us.so if the situationis not very terrible.i will forget this thing. but if she or he is very hateful ,i willnot want to be his or hen friend.
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meng -蒙
beat him, and tell him : you are not my friend
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诺诺
hello genevieve, thank you for your sharing with me!
well, it's really one of the problems that we will meet in our life. Firstly i won't regard him/her as my true friend again. I will still talk with him/her, however i won't keep my heart to him/her,i won't share my deep thoughts with him/her. To find a true friend is actually a hard thing, and i am proud of having a good,true friend,in spite of only one. I have been hurt before,when i was a middle school student.Somebody approaches me with their own,selfish purpose, like copying my homework( i was a top student at that time,and so am i now,hehe... : ) )... Now, on my opinion, we shall not be so upset when a "friend" cheats behind you. Firstly it proves that he/she is not your true friend and it is pleasing that you have found out a bad friend before he/she hurts you more seriously. Secondly he/she doesn't deserve your value at all, they are not worth your cherishing.
A real friendship needs Sincerity and Tolerance and it's not easy to get one. And so friendship deserves treasure. I am eager to find more good friends, but at the same time i will keep my eyes open in order to get the true ones.
It's my opinion. and remember, it's only the thought of one of the Chinese. It means, other Chinese will probably take another way and of course will people in other countries.
A long answer...... but it's my thought from my deep heart...... : ) : ) : )
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sally
don't care about them!
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bonnie
I would forgive her although I would really mad at her. people always make mistakes. I would give her one more chance! But probably, only if she's closer to my crutial friend~!
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破茧.brave^^
i think he or she not the true friend, friend need to be sincere, so i will leave!!!
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