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what its like to be too pretty :(

whenever i go for a walk or go somewhere i am stared at. at school i have a hard time getting girls to be friends because they think i will steal their boyfriends and i sometimes catch my cousins and my brother staring at me. i, however do not like this attention and want it to stop but even when i cut my hair and where ugly cloathes i get the same. how can i know if someone loves me for me and not for what i look like? should i be friends with all and love none? how can i every marry? i am so confused and would really like some help.

Asked by Jasmine on 22:31, 07/10/2008 - 505 views
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This guy had a similar problem ... didn't work out so well for him ....

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissus_(mythology)

"Eventually he became thirsty and went to drink from a stream. As he saw his reflection, he fell in love with it, not knowing that it was him. As he bent down to kiss it, it seemed to "run away" and he was heart broken. He grew thirstier but he wouldn't touch the water for fear of damaging his reflection, so he eventually died of thirst and self love, staring at his own reflection. The narcissus flower grew where he died."

My advice would be .... try not to make the same mistakes :P
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Pardon ??? !!! You must be kidding ??? !!!
answered 3 months ago
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Please don't feel urself offended, but are u sure they stare at u becuz they think ur pretty, or might there be another reason? Actually, everybody is being stared, why do u think its something bad...
answered 3 months ago
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XD oh, dear:) is this a problem??
if you are so beautiful, become a model and get a lot of money!:)
however, if you always notice other people staring at you, then you must be staring at them just as well yourself:))) it is optics, haha:))




answered 3 months ago
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I'm sure there are plenty who would gladly share in your burden.

Your English saying for today is: "The grass is always greener (on the other side of the fence)."
answered 3 months ago
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I don't think so you are very pretty
Hope you think well why they are stared at you and how you know they are look at you?
Because you also stared at them at the same time
answered 3 months ago
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hahaha ! i just can agree with James. he is right. be careful with it ! (:
answered 3 months ago
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Jasmine, you are too pretty but you are too young as well. After some years that will pass, you will be more mature person and you will think it over in other way. Till then, be happy, it’s not a tragedy at all !
answered 3 months ago
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Jasmine, your family staring at you too? cousins and your brother...
if it is so, it is some what of violence you are having.
maybe that makes your feel uncomfortable all the way around.
talk to your family or friend or school counselor anyone you can trust, ok?
answered 3 months ago
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hey Jasmine..u're good looking gurl but i dont think thats the reason they cant stop staring at u..may be u're doing things let u be the centre of attention , may be u stare at them too so they just give it back .. may it just ur imagination because u like the way u look too much......... i dont think they all mean it.. u search and think for a while and im sure u'll find the answer ! if not u better get someone matured to talk to .
answered 3 months ago
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I hate you jaja, I'm not pretty at all, but anyway just ignore the physical part, or become a model
answered 3 months ago
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In Arabic we say: If your wife is so beautiful, then she is not just yours! I really appreciate you searching for answers for your situation, specially with the sarcastic replies you've got so far! that clearly show they are jelous!!! As a man, who knows the male environment/mentality/nature very well, eastern & western, the fact is: men ENJOY looking at pretty women, not only the face, but also EVERY part of the body!!! even more than this....their imagination of sexual fantasies starts! in the same time, they would behave so polite & gentel. Regarding relatives staring at you, this is not strange, with the western culture, that made sex the core of life! unfortunately, we hear a lot about men who raped their relatives...be careful! regarding love ...it is not easy to know ...please give me some time to have an answer. What I can advise you to do at the moment, is not to wear tight cloths & no bright colors, but cloths that covers your body. I'd like to tell you, that a satisfying answer you will find in ISLAM "If you are not yet affected by the yellow press". I hope this would help you...Best Wishes.
answered 3 months ago
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I also have a similar experence,it's very hard time when i haver dinner or have supper with my friends.
Several monthes ago,she produced a boy A to me,in that time she have boyfreind,but he in another province. It haven't occered to me that A like she,but she didn't told me.
But,you know,to be lover is not a easy thing,because when i saw he first sight,he just give me a good pression,it's all my feeling````````
I n the end of story,my friend say goodbye to her ex-boyfriend,be the girlfriend of A.So,this "triangle relationship"make me feel embrass when we meet in school,party~~~~
May be if you feel the man don't care what you have and although don't have any promises, but he try hus best show you in his actions.
About wheather make friend with those people,i know this problem is difficult,but what i can say is:try to change you attitude and value
All of those is what can i do for you.I don't know weather it is helpful.
answered 3 months ago
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Don't mind those who stare at you. Be yourself :) Keep smiling and check yourself ^_^
answered 2 months ago
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you must be happy and self-confident everyday, and don't mind those who stare you, or you can dream star yourself,haha^^ the feel is good job.
answered 2 months ago
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do not see them and will finish your problem :), also i think that you are supposing other things and maybe you have an strange of looking at the people, and they reply in the same way and just looking you like all the people...
maybe you think that everybody is seeing you, and it is not certain, surely it is your imagination.
think that, do not be paranoic.
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