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why do men prefer skinny girls, even if they re ugly, instead of an overweight girl who got a pretty face

Well, think of it this way, would you want an overweight guy or would you rather have a fit guy? I'm a size 2, and I work out regularly and eat healthy. When you see an overweight person, what do you think? I immediately think that they must be overweight because they eat poorly and don't exercise. Slender girls take care of themselves, which shows that they love themselves; it's a sign of confidence. Physical attraction is the first step into a relationship, and without that attraction, there would be no point. Would you fuck a fat guy just because he had a cute personality? I doubt you would.

Ahhhhh....the painful belief of thinking your too big,i know it so well!!!! Im 5"5" and weigh 85kg,well proportioned so i pull it off well,(on the overweight side but i consider myself very pretty)..but before children i was tiny...a mere 55kg...i have always gone for the athletic build, tattooed, pretty boys...and i always got them!!!! Even tho my svelte build has disappeared(tho i do cardio three times a week and BY FAR from being lazy)havnt had take away in over 7 months) my taste for the same type of men hasnt :( I believe that guys who have the pretty faces fairly decent bodies go cover themselves in tats(which is so damn incredibly hot) mostly like the pretty tiny trophy on their arm...i can no longer 'pull' those guys anymore..i seem to attract the average not so pretty faced average body kinda guy omg and older!!.. these days...but these guys are real!!! They arent looking for a trophy,they dont care what their mates gonna say,they arent shallow,they are looking past the exterior!!! My problem is learning to accept my body has changed,i have given birth twice and am no longer a tiny little club hopper young dumb inexperienced in life BUT i am a beautiful mum!!!. Not all men are the same, not all men like the bag of bones not all men like having sex with a skeleton hahaha...When you give off positivity and confidence it will flow right to you. Looking at the men who are a lil shallow and only have the one type of girls(skinny) is torturous to you!!!Your setting yourself up for insecurities,just as i need to not be so shallow and change my taste in men,actually let a good one in. Both men and women are at fault when it comes judgment,expectations and standards......its human nature. xx

I'm going to explain something to some of you misinformed men, or maybe I'm just a little stubborn, im the chubby one with a pretty face, I work out 5 days a week eat very healthy, and its soooo hard for me to loose, its called hypothyroidism....no matter what I do, I can't loose...i think my point is...i have friends that are skinny they get more men then I do, but if the guys only new how nasty there little skinny behinds are they would kick the bones to the curb and hold a little fat for once in there lives..the stigma is wrong, get to know everyone, because if you really cared, you would get with the fatty and work out with her, and she would then turn into the skinny you always dreamed of....anyways I rather filter out all the supetficial men....lol there the ones that are going to have to live with a hunched skelton when there old, not me. Standards change, are society in general is all messed up, so I guess just be a fatty, drink some wine, and watch the cooking channel, everything will be ok, thee end..so poetic I know.