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Beth
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If 对不起 is sorry, how can I be more sorry? Can I say something like 我真的对不起 or 我非常对不起 or even 我太对不起?
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For learning: Chinese (Mandarin)
Base language: English
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José
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In reality, when we say that 'I am sorry' in Chinese, generally we won't say 'I am' as it is in English, especially in spoken Chinese. Notice: I said 'generally', most of the time, not 'abosolutely'. This is not about grammar, it's just how we use language in daily life. So you could say:

实在是对不起。 honestly, sincerely
真的是对不起。 really
真的是不好意思。
真的是非常抱歉。
Among them,"抱歉"is the most polite and cultivated expression.
e.g.我迟到了,真的是不好意思!

As for some formal situations like presentations, writings etc, we would say: I feel very sorry about...对于....我感到十分歉意/抱歉.

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Cherry
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Hello ,

Do something extremely bad and you will feel or be more sorry ;)

No you can't say :

我真的对不起 nor
我非常对不起

You can say without using "我"

真的很对不起 or
很对不起
sull
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you can say, “我真的很抱歉。”
hannahyan
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我非常抱歉。(formal)
Elizabeth
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真的对不起
Nydia
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You can say 我实在是太对不起你了。
真的很抱歉,我不是故意的。
我错了,对不起。
中国 Gary
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in china.we can say 真的是很对不起你。
apple
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Yes,you are right,well done.

But you can say"我真的对不起你 or 非常对不起 or even 我太对不起你了",it could be better.

You have a good feeling of language indeed.Just keep on more practice.
Lee
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非常抱歉
fish
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实在对不起,太对不起了,真的很抱歉,真不好意思
真是太对不起了。
all of them are I'm so sorry.
anita998710
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過意不去
心中不安,感到抱歉。
儒林外史˙第一回:「王冕見此光景,過意不去,嘆了一口氣。」

更強烈的說法如下

我深感抱歉
我感到萬分抱歉
我內疚不已
我感到歉疚難安
我歉疚至極
我著實負疚難安
Michelle
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非常抱歉 ; 真的很抱歉
shelly
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当你要表达“so sorry !”in chinese ,you should say :

1.非常抱歉!
2.真是太对不起了!
3.实在是太对不起了,我不是故意的。

日常生活中我们不加主语“我”在前面。

在很正式的场合,可以说“我非常非常的抱歉。”
durk
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The following phrases are more formal。

深表歉意,实在是太抱歉了

歉意 is noun, 抱歉 is verb

You can say: 我对此深表歉意。
Ashka824
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真是对不起
真不好意思
实在抱歉
对不起
真是对不住啊
More Chinese expressions can go to:www.learnchinese.sg
Amy
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我真的很抱歉,我不是故意的!