CindyAnita
What's the difference between like and love?

i  guess these two words have different interpretations in different cultures 

so what  do u think is the difference between like and love (in romantic context)?

Nov 26, 2015 4:03 PM
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Yes, exactly. I think that it depends. I´m from Spain and in my culture, tell someone " I like you " (me gustas) it´s like a feeling stronger than friendship and normally if you say this you want to start a relationship. This is a problem, because in other cultures "like" is for friends. But I never say to a friend "I like you"  because for me is a greater feeling. "Like" it´s like to feel attracter to someone. This is a problem for me, because when I tell someone I like you, and that person is a foreigner he can interprete that It´s only friendship, but for me is something more.

And finally, for me love is the greatest  feeling that a person can experience. In my opinion love isn´t a problem for differents cultures. Love is love xD 

Sorry for my english.

November 26, 2015
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Forget to mention, like is more reserved for things and people you're fine with but aren't generally close with. For example, at least with everyone I know, you wouldn't say I like you to your cloes friends, you'd tell them you love them like sisters or something. With a crush, you could use I like you, but it's a bit 'out-dated'. I'm not sure what the "kids these days" say since I haven't dated in about 15 years haha but saying I like you comes off more as a school yard crush rather than something that could potentionally grow into a solid relationship - of course, that's just my experience ^^

January 15, 2016
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In America, in my experience, it is largely about the context of the conversation and the person you're talk with. For exmaple, I love my friends and tell them that frequently, but they know I'm not saying I'm in love with them  (ie romantic love) when I do. Of course, when I say I love you to my boyfriend, he knows I mean that I'm in love with him... it's just an understanding that you gain from engaging with people in this culture I suppose. And, everyone is different about it. My father reserves the words love and hate for very specific things - his family and liver and onions repsecitively haha

 

I know Americans have a 'reputation' for using the word love "too much", but really it's just a matter of understanding what we mean rather than only going off the words we use alone. For friends and such, that's easy because they know the person, but I can understand how that could be difficult for others - especially those in another culture where things are done differently. Honestly, if there is any confusion, all someone has to do is ask. I know that can be a bit awkward for some dealing with potentionally romantic feelings and all, but it's better to be sure!

January 15, 2016
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There is a statement in China about this question. If u like a flower ,u would pick it; if u love a flower,you would tend it.

January 15, 2016
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In relationships, 'like' is for platonic and non committal relationships. 'Love' is used for serious passion and/or commitment.

January 15, 2016
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