If someone is being bullied does this person have a reason to get bullied ?
If someone is being bullied by his friends or collegues does this person have a reasonable reason to get bullied?
I mean . in class. if someone is being bullied. many people feel sorry for him however some people say "maybe that person has problem with his attitude so he deserves it" like there's saying "everything has reasons"
I believe those who bully are the only ones who deserve to be bullied. So, if that person being bullied was, for lack of a better word, and asshole, he most definitely deserves what he gets but if it is someone else who has done no harm then he does not deserve it.
And what you say about being bullied by friend... If a person is being bullied by their friends (and I don't mean teasing or joking around) then those are no "friends" but foes.
Oh.. the problem of that person's behavior? who thinks that? it just the thoughts of the assailants. It's not the problem of those who get bullied.
I never can understand those people say that bullied people have reasons to get bullied.
Besides bullying is technically violence. no one has right to do that. People bully specific person if he is different and like you said "asshole" but let me be clear..who does have right to call them "asshole'? just because they are different? their personality can be different and irritating. but it's THEIR nature. no one can change it.bullying is just stupid coward acts .
I never said people have reasons to get bullied, read my comment again if thats what you think. I said only assholes have the right to be bullied. just because someone is different doesn't make them an asshole. Their acts make them assholes. If a person is irritating and annoying it DOES NOT make him an asshole, it just makes them annoying. People are very good at telling the difference between an asshole and an annoying person.
But just to make myself clear an asshole is someone who picks on little people, who makes fool of girls by dating them, taking advantage of them then dumping them, someone who is rude and thinks the world revolves around them. That is an asshole and those are usually the bullies. Those are the ones wo have a reason and deserve to be bullied.
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