What do you think about friendship? Do you think it's hard to find a true friendship?
I think friendship is very important but, I'm finding it so hard to find a really good and true friendship lately. . . I used to have this best friend. . but at the end she proved to me that our friendship wasn't true. . It's difficult to be in a situation like that when you think that "best friend" was a true friendship when it really wasn't. .
Have you ever been in a situation like that? Did you have someone you really care about but at the end that someone proved to you that was with you only for interest or that it wasn't really a true friendship?
Feel free to share your story or thoughts with us!
I approach friendship in this way:
-better to be a true friend than find a true friendship
-better to love unconditionally than to be loved at all
-if someone turns their back, always be welcoming if they ever come back.
-be joyful if another chooses to stay in our lives for as long as the exchange is helpful to their growth, and not a moment longer.
Aww that was very emotive! Thank you for sharing this! That's a good view of friendship! I always try to do my best to be a good friend!
Haha thank you yeah it's very difficult to find a true friend. . . sometimes not even you being a good friend. . . cos I've been a good friend to my "best friend" and now she has found other friends and she is not interested in hanging out with me anymore! And it makes me think that she was only a bit interested in some stuff. . but well. . what can we do!
To start off, I think of it like this, and i'm not tryihng to say anything about you at all, But "we do not attract what we want, but what we are". So just be you, and don't lie to anybody about who you are just to hang out with them. Because the people that you will consider friends in your life and true friends, are the ones that like you, the other's might as well just be acquiatances. And in order to have a best friend, you yourself must be a best friend, (not saying that you havnen't just saying), so open up, and be you, the people that like you will come into your life, you will attract those kinds of people. Although they are very few and hard to find. But with time, and all, they will surely show up, or you'll notive they've been there all along. That's how I look at things. Although it's natural for friends to get tired of each other, doesn't mean y'all are still not friends : )
Hello!! Thank you for your answer! You're right! I agree about being yourself! I think I'm always being myself. . it's the best thing you can do! But sometimes you find the wrong people. . the ones you think they're true friends they end up not being that good friends as you though they would be! Or just they are not that "compatible" with you! I think that family are the best friends you can ever have! The ones that will always be there no matter what!
Yes, family, Unconditional love, those are the first friends, and the greatest. And you are right, sometimes friends don't turn out to be what you thought they would be. But as long as you are yourself, and open to a friendship from whoever, then i'im more than sure you will find really true friends. Plus the best test for true friends is time. Time will show us everything. So just keep going, and be a friend, because you never know who will end up being a true friend. I'm Sure it's things you already know! Anyways goood luck, good friends are hard to find, but well worth the look!
here are two quotes!
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened
There are some that bring a light so great into the world, even after they have gone the light remains.
Learn from your experiences : )
hi,i live in china,i think the friendship is the same thing for all the people wherever they live in . i have a little friends,they are my classmates when i was in high school and university.our friendship has been maintained for more than 10years. we are all different persons. i am a ordinary girl for other people ,i am not beautiful,not tall,a little fat,not fashion ,obstinate,like cartoon,not good at chatting and so on,it is different from my friends.
so i agree with being myself, i want to have my space ,i like to stay by myself sometimes,i do not often chat with them,but i can call them or chat with them online sometimes,we do not say who are best friends ,we are just friends or even classmates,but who need help ,we will try our best to help them,it is our friendship.
I think that friendship is a kind of coincidence which might be called "serendipity". Once I had a friend who I considered as my best buddy, we used to hang out together and spent a lot of joyful time in college, even though she was a bit elder than me, I treated her like my younger sister, jajajaja~~! We had never been separated even during the tough period in life like one day her father passed away and the other day she failed to pass an important exam. But later I found that when I was the one who needed help, she never gave me a hand, till one day I broke up with my boyfriend and came to school with a gloomy face, I asked her to go buy a cup of coffee together but she told me that it was embarrassing to walk with me on the street since I looked so decadent, thus this is the end of our friendship but I do admit I miss her.
but i have
You and me are like, each holiday my primary sister play together, though many of us have children,we always return home. We don't attend the wedding deliberately, happy is the most important thing. I have many real friends, we are happy from the heart when we are together.
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