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功課的好壞

你們認同一個人課業不好就代表他以後也會有不什麼出息嗎?

我完全不認同這點...因此想聽聽各位的想法

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每个小朋友的天分有不同,功课只是表现天分的其中一个方面。有的小朋友理科很差,但是文科很有天分,有的是功课都很差,但是人际关系很好,为人热诚。有的则是思路很灵活,擅长制造新的东西,有的是功课很好,得到老师宠爱,却遭到其他小朋友的隔离。。。

有没有出息这个话题很大了:),取决于你对有出息(成功?)的定义。

有时候人不要单单为别人怎么看待自己而生活,只有活得像自己才是最自然开心。

楼上姐姐发言真的很好的

The sticking point of your disturbance is derived from so called  score grading system adopted by most compulsory education system . In Asian instituition  , high score means goodness and  excellence unidirectionall without exception  . A student who is good at rote learning implies he might have great achievement in the future . That is why they are so expected to be a successful model . For some positions in society  , it is right to measure a man by scores  , especially in some public sector (as in my country ) , however, it is a little trick here that you cannot apply your score to everything especially non programmed strategy work . That is the future challenge you must face and overcome  . Rote learning is far lack of challenge to the future trend  which you can expect to gain from the traditional score grading system . So the best way to step out the obsession is to construct a useful and reasonabel  grading system to fit the future challenge instead of just scoring students. 

 

成功的定義很重要 不要隨便為您的小孩做決定

In my view, ... though in general it's wrong, or at least can't apply to every child...

 

however, in real life(society)... it's got its point...

 

it's all depending on whether you(the parents, the teachers) have other ways to guide the child to develop his/her gifted talence to achieve a happy life...

 

sadly enough, based on a objective observation, nearly all the teachers, at least here in China, are either pedestrian, or money grubber...

 

So,... god be praised, if they can only go through the non-challenging path...

 

got to be very lucky to expect more here... ^^

To:allen

我沒有小孩,也是為人子女,只是有人這麼對我說,讓我不禁感到憤怒...

而想問問大人們真的這麼認為而已嘛。

學校能學的其實很有限。真正的學習是在你走出學校之後,你有一生的時間可以好好學習。

 

(台灣的?) 學校沒能教育你是不是個自知 (認識自己、知道自己到底要做什麼) 的人、是不是個有責任心的人、是不是個能與他人互助合作的人,這些人格特質要比你的智力跟能力都重要太多了。學校它只是頒給你一張紙,擦屁股都嫌硬了。

 

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人生很多事都很難說,別太早下定論。

很多當大老闆的都是學校後段班的,等你七、八十歲了仍一事無成,再來自暴自棄都不嫌遲 :-)

我功课就是不好,我只对有汉语的课程有兴趣,因此偏课了。比如:数学,物理,英语,化学,这四科我最差了,像语文,生物,地理,等又进前了。这就是差点,看个人喜欢什么课程。出不出息跟学习一点关系也没有,有的大学毕业还是当一个看酒店的保安。。。

我也完全不认同……

个人觉得比起成绩,比起功课,一个人的内心和他的修养更重要。我们活着不是为了去争去抢,而是要让自己好好的。

另外我觉得一个人的兴趣爱好和特长比起功课也重要得多。长大之后没有人会看你小时候怎么怎么样,只会看你那个时候会做些什么。

最重要的是让自己开心。

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