No Penny, you have to cry! crying is a way of easing the pain and it makes the stress goes away :) don't be the IRON WOMAN it won't be good for your health :) 

I don't cry!!!....because there are many people.I don't want to let someone see my flabby.I just wanna be a firm girl.

         Thanks for your correcting! Maybe you are right,but I think life is unpredictable.You will meet some new trouble things all the time!

         I will have a try in these advice.

From a girl's perspective: I will cry :D but after all I have to pull myself together and cope with the whole situation

Well, you can read Plato for instance ;)