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Go away or stay?


Are many days that I can't stop thinking if better for me to go away or stay...I live in rome and here life is impossible...there isn't work, there isn't good man, I look around and I can see only dismals. One so big city and nothing to do....I dream one place with funny e smily people, where the sunshine is always high.... Does exist?



Yes, thanks.

there isn't mistake in my discussion? :) wow...

There are many many problems The biggest is about in Rome, maybe in Italy, there isn't very hard in this period to find a job...doesn't exist meritocracy, you can work if your have Knowledge (I don't know if is correct).


if it possible to you go!

our life is short,i like to go another city but it doesnt possible!

Knowledge is correct word!! unfortunatly

In ancient times, a king had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the king’s wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it.

Many loudly blamed the king for not keeping the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the big stone out of the way.

Then came along a peasant carrying a load of vegetables. On approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded. As the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the king indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway.


The peasant learned what many others never understand: Every obstacle presents an opportunity.

Egypt :) .. dream land :D

You are living in good country, You should keep struggling to find your target job, Increase your knowledge. There is no dream lands in the world, Be optimistic and keep going.


You could try New Zealand ...I was teaching English in Lviv (Ukraine) (which is also a beautiful, ancient city) and whenever I said I was from NZ, they always asked why I left??!! ) 

It's very very relaxed, and people are usually smiling, and it has good weather. And you might even get in a film if you're lucky ;) 


 We have a saying:  The grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence.

But I have moved many times, to find something better, something more.  I always found I missed the place I left, missed friends, or family or something more convenient in my old home.  Then I adjusted and liked where I was, made new friends, and found my home was the new place.  But then I moved again, and again.   Now that I am older, I am glad to stay in one place and visit others. 


The choice is up to you.  When the jobs are few, and all of those around you have little to make their life better, picking up and moving seems an obvious choice.  But explore every option where you home is first.  You may not pick a better place.  Are there jobs you could do that don't pay very much now, but have a promising future?  Could you move to a nearby city, or country and still be able to visit home?  Or do you long for a huge change, and want to go far away and discover all new things? 


I think either staying or leaving is a good choice.  But it is a very difficult choice to make.  Good luck with your future!

i have lived in rome befor fo a short time 

it is amazing city 

maybe you should change your life change your friend changee your books  change  everything.

and i invite you to visit me  in Stockholm 

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