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When do you realize that you are going to become great friends with a stranger?

For me, when we burst out laughing at random things. Even if I don't know the person well, I know that we'll make good friends.

Sep 23, 2014 2:31 PM
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I sometimes think that the ability to share some uncomfortable topics is necessary for imtimacy.

But at the same time, such talking about uncomfortable ideas can also drive people away.

For me, the situation is always confusing. :-(

September 24, 2014
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Maybe when I feel a genuine willingness to understand me without any judgement from that person. It's ralatively easy to find friends with similar interests, a good sense of humor, backgrounds etc., but great friends are there to help you even when you screw up. They are happy to share ups and downs of life with you. I think that's impossible without an open-heart and patience, which does not always mean to agree with you, but to support you howerver different you are. 

 

September 24, 2014
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When we can talk about everything and nothing (is it right?) during hours.

September 24, 2014

Common topics and interests is necessary to have to become friends I think.

September 24, 2014