If you need to start everthing all over again,what methods will you use to adjust your state? I heard a saying"life is to start again". I guess I can put this statement in a lot of different situations. I learned how to speak Japanese few years ago,but I forget too many Japanese words now. I have to start prounce the basic words from the very begining. I thought what I learnt from university would be very useful but when faced real work issues, I didn't know a thing.I had to gain new experiences by working for a period of time. If a person finish a realationship with a man or a woman, it will always be a fresh start to date another person because he/she can be so different. The method I used is simple,try my best to bear the shocking feelings about the facts and keep remind myself sometimes this is what life all about. But I can't adjust my state very well everytime.I would love to hear some new great methods here.