Hi everyone!
Today, I’m going to write about a love marriage verses arrange marriage. I have seen most of the people face problems while making a decision either to go for love or arrange marriage. It usually happens in the countryside since the cities are very forwarded and both girls and boys are very educated, parents allow their children to choose on their wish.
I once went to India along with my family and after we stayed some days in Haridwar, we hired a taxi along with a driver and left the New Delhi. Driver said that it would take around 7 hours since driving any vehicle more than 60 or 70 KPM is strictly prohibited.
On the way to New Delhi we had an intimate conversation and one of my uncles asked a driver about his parents. He said that they live in the big houses and have good business but unfortunately, being a son of rich father, he said that he was driving a rented car for covering the daily expenses of life. He told us he had fallen in love with a girl who teaches in a high school but his parents wanted another girl from the richest house. He many times tried to convince his parents but they seemed very persistent. Unfortunately, he had to leave his home and went to Haridwar with his girlfriend and got a married there. Afterwards he started driving a rented car. So, I suggested him that he go back to their parents along with his wife and convince them but he completely denied and said that when his son was born, he invited them and they came but could hardly stay half an hour. He said that his boss knew it and respects him very much.
Well I would personally say love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Since two people understand each other and are satisfied to each other, then parents should not deny them. I know it’s also the right of parents but both parents should check the manners and how educated they are not how rich they are. And If the loved ones get married on their choice and later on do not understand each other, at least they will not blame their parents.
That is all about today.
Have a nice day guys :)
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