I beat it !

I beat it !

I'm a teenager. That is to say, I'm in puberty now. So, the reverse psychology my rebellious phase was a hard challenge for me to overcome. (Reverse psychology is not the correct phrase here.)

As we all know, the reverse psychology this teenage phase is a kind of negative attitude psychology, and it's not good for our development. I knew the harm of it, but the mainly the problem was that I couldn't control my words or feelings when I was in argument with my family members. I always said something that hurt them. In my deep heart But deep down, I knew I was wrong, so I would feel very sorry after when I had calmed down. But I wasn't brave enough had no braveness to go to say sorry to them.

Then, I learned a good way to get over this beat it. I referred to it as It was "transposition thinking". It means I should put myself in another person's people's position to think. I found this it was useful for me. By In this way, I learned to communicate with my family better. I tried putting myself in their shoes thinking on their ways. They are my relatives. It was general that They just wanted me to do well. That Everything they do is was just because they loved me. How could I hurt the people who loved me the most? Then, I would this would allow me to calm down and tried listening to what they said. Suddenly, I realized found out there was good intention behind their words their words were all good for me. So I did what they wanted me to do, they were so surprised and happy to see my change. And I felt happy, too. I also learned to how to express my requests well so that I could get a satisfactory reply from them.
So, to overcome this rebellious phase the reverse psychology, we must try to do "transposition thinking" ("try to change the way we think"), and this is what I learned. I think I have matured from this adolescent way of thinking.

I don't think you mean reverse psychology. Reverse psychology, is a method of advocating a belief that is opposite to what is desired in an attempt to get the subject to comply with your desires. For example, a teacher telling a student that they should just give up studying for an exam because they are going to fail anyway, which in turn causes the student to study harder and pass the exam (this is a terrible teaching method, however.) Or telling a child to stay in the the house all day, when you really want them to go outside an play (terrible method of parenting).