Conversations Making small talk is hard (at least for me). I'm having a hard time keeping conversations interesting. I guess it says a lot about my personality. This is why I try my best to talk to ot

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Conversations Making small talk is hard (at least for me). I'm having a hard time keeping conversations interesting. I guess it says a lot about my personality. This is why I try my best to talk to other people to learn from them. I don't know but I just get so tense and nervous when talking to people for the first time. I'm always amazed to see and meet people with excellent social skills. Especially in my profession, I have to develop techniques in making my clients comfortable in telling me what they have in mind. I really need to practice and maybe do some research on what topics people like to discuss. People who naturally have this talent are lucky because they can be anywhere with anyone and make great connections with them. Oh, how I wish I can just exchange ideas with others smoothly. My life would be much better.

Mar 6, 2013 4:22 AM

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March 10, 2013

I'm a quiet person, but a lot of people rarely see that side of me unless they're in my home for an extended period of time. I have to be friendly, lively, and witty for my work. I think you're right, it is a talent. However, like all talents, they have to be honed or cultivated. I find when interacting with people - especially new people, that it's best to get them talking about things THEY like. I always start off with something neutral "how do you know the hostess of this gathering?", or "where did you go to school?". Even a simple "what do you do for fun?", can really get someone to open up. Once you have that foot in the door, it's just a matter of continuing to make them feel comfortable. People love to talk about themselves, always use that to your advantage. I also find it's best to ignore: sex, religion, politics and taxes, lol. Those just make people so worked up.

March 6, 2013

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