Moti Shwartzbard
Help them or not? It was two days ago after a short walk with Amit from home to his break-dance class/lesson. We arrived to the place it was a building and it was our first time so I had to look for the place which floor it is? And then,in corner of my eyes I heard some woman with tow children that said to her sun "Yes break-dance is second flore" then I decided to join her because she probably know the place. When the elevator door open in second flore we here screaming and I looked and I see her daughter screaming because of the fingertips was Perceived in the door immediately I jumped and took her hands from the door... It looks like there is no damage, just put the fingers in the water and it will be fine. But instead of hearing a thanks I've got criticism. "you shouldn't do things like this it's danger". You could damage her finger. I was shocked. I didn't have nothing to say. It all come from a good Intention. And also what I'm supposed to do lying back and see small child screaming and not try to help?
Sep 5, 2013 6:31 AM
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Help them or not?

This happened It was two days ago after a short walk with Amit from home to his break-dance class/lesson. We arrived to the place it was a at the building and it was our first time so I had to figure out what floor it was on. look for the place which floor it is?
And then,in corner of my eyes out of the corner of my eye, I heard some a woman with two children that said to her sun saying to her son, "Yes, break-dancing is on the second floor" then I decided to join her because she probably knew the place.
When the elevator door opened in second flore on the second floor, we here heard screaming and I looked and I saw her daughter screaming because her fingertips was Perceived were caught in the door. Immediately I jumped and took her hands out of the door... It looked like there was no damage, just put the fingers in the water and it will be fine. But instead of thanks I get criticism. "You shouldn't do things like this, it's dangerous. You could damage her finger." 
I was shocked. I didn't have anything to say. I meant well (or: I had good intentions). And also, what I'm am I supposed to do, lying lie back and see watch a small child screaming and not try to help?

 

בטח שהיית צריך לעזור לילדה. חבל שהאם לא העריכה את המעשה הטוב.

September 8, 2013
It's nice of you to try to help. Thankfully nothing much happened, but perhaps from this experience you could learn that there is a better way to help? (I'm making some assumptions here, as I don't know the full story.)
November 28, 2015
One should never expect a thank you in return for having helped someone but know, what you did was very good. Keep it up and God bless you.
September 5, 2013
Nope. It's not your business.
September 5, 2013
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