How To Keep Romance Alive To keep romance alive, you have to work at it a little bit, but it shouldn't feel like work.I think the simplest way to keep romance going is to really keep affection between you. If you touch each other as you walk by, maybe like you know, pat each other on the tush or rub the other one’s back, and compliment each other constantly, it just keeps that attraction going together, and it's a really great way to make each other feel loved, and keep that romance going. And make an effort to really do the same things you did when you first met. If there's a special place that you liked to go to together, make sure you still keep going there, or create new memories, find new things to do.I mean patterns and habits are sometimes what kills a relationship. So maybe make a plan at least once a month you find something new to do, and maybe each one of you gets to pick what it is. And you don't get to complain to the other one. It's like just you’re just gonna explore something new that the other person would like to do. And have a fun time doing it, have a no complaining policy no matter what you do. If you get out together, no complaining, no griping about the weep or the kids, it's just about and spending some quality time together and you'll keep the romance going.