"Coping With Tragedy" I received a lot of help from both public relief work and personal assistance,but as I grew accustomed to receiving,I began to lose my self-respect ;-(I knew that there is more happiness in giving than there is in receiving,' Since I was limited in what I could give materially,I set out to give words of encourangement to other victims of this disaster.Showing generosity in this way was a big help to me.