True happiness, hidden behind our paradigm **I'm not sure that paradigm is an appropriate word here**

I was in a course about innovation. In one of the sessions, the instructor made a discussion about what is meant by value. He led the discussion ofcourse. At the end, he concluded it in terms of money,  saying that something that has value is something that deserves to have spent money spent to get on it.
Yes, I agree with that, but I don't agree with the conclusion because the discussion went through without talking about happiness.
Here is the my problem with that me, as I think money is just a means to an end and not an end in itself result. How that could that be?
It is simple, it is a rule stored inside within us. We sacrifice things that are lower in their values with things that we think it is are higher in its value.
If you don't agree with me in this consider this: so Why do we give up money to buy other things if money is the most important value thing in our life lives? The answer is easy, we search for happiness.
We sacrifice money to buy what we think it will make us happier.
That is why parents spend money to raise up their children while receiving no direct benefit will impact from them spending this money. It is the value of love, of having deep relations with the ones you love and the joy of have having children. in common.

**It is not about money, it about how think it is, it is about our paradigm looking at happiness makes us searching for it under the umbrella of power of money.** This sentence is too long and doesn't make much sense, you should consider rewriting it. :-)
 
That is all for now, and I will continue later.
Bye.

**Well done but try and make your sentences a little shorter and less complicated until your grammar gets stronger** :-)