to be a better man if u want to make some achivements in your life, u should make efforts for that. however, the road to somewhere faraway is not easy. Mostly ,we have to sacrifice apple in order to get pear. When i was a kid, i desired to be totally free oneday, i mean,oneday without homework, go anywhere i want, be no bound to my parents. Now ,i grew up, i surprisingly found all my dreams come true ,but i still feel disappointed, i am not looking for freedom,i am looking for the answer who am i in the world .