Tyler Li
The choice phobia disorder Do you have the choice phobia disorder when you are facing many choices? I think I can do on some special occasions. For a instance, I would be invited to visit a new friend and he ask me which food I will have for the lunch,I will look at him and tell him "whatever,it's up to you". But is that my true wish? For another instance,you would come into a new restaurant alone, and a waiter give you a menu,you find a lot of foods that you like on it,you find you could not do a choice in a short while. What and how should you select at present? you browse the menu quickly again and again,you do not still do a choice. It past for a long time. At that time ,you look up the waiter, the waiter is still waiting for you with a light smile , but you seem to feel the waiter is impatient. you seem to find your heart beat faster.you know you must do a choice at the moment. you have to select one of them on the menu quickly. Those that say "whatever" maybe is forced of environment. I think the choice phobia disorder is due that we are very concerned with the opinions of others to us, Or We would want to select the best but it is no more time left,or we don't want to waste other's time or we want to wait again until the conditions is not limited. When we face many choices, they worry us and we feel anxious.So we have to select one of them to get rid of the current state and feel. I think we can tell the ones which is familiar and close to us our truthful thoughts directly. Tell the waiters "let me have a look slowly,please. I call you later." because I will pay for my food finally,I should enjoy my coming food and this turn deserve the fee.
Nov 22, 2014 2:03 PM