谭洁
Caring about old people.PLEASE I was talking to an old man on chatroulette(though I know it's not very "clean " there ,i'm just there to talk to some new people).He look like over 60 i guess,just sitting there alone,skinny ,wearing a pair of glasses.He told me that he live alone in Australia,he lost his wife because of cancer.He talks politely,just like a gentleman.I was surprised by his typing and he was surprised i can speak english.His daughter told him about that website .He has over 10 grandchildren,and some are close,while some are cold.I can't imagine how old people feel,when these kids come and showed coldness while he waited for months just to see them...it's really sad.He got a call from his friend(he said please wait,5 mins). then he told me that one of his friends just learned that she had a cancer... I could say nothing else but sorry,i was powerless...I'm not here to pretend that I'm great or like ,i care about everyone.Just i think we really should pay more attention to them ,as much as possible.people all gonna become old and feel lonely,or even useless.we are there to give love and care.I really feel so bad right now,because the conversation just disconnected automatically! I guess,I'm afraid that he might think that i disconnected. I also thought of one story.One guy was taking care of his father,and his father asked what kind of bird that is.He answered "crow".after a while,the father asked again,he answered patiently again.However the father asked again and again.The son finally lost patience,asked"dad,why are you asking so many times?!"There was nothing but silence for a while.The father then said slowly "U know u also asked me like this about everything when you were a little kid..."
Jan 27, 2015 3:53 PM