How can one's life be formed? I think one's life can be affected enormously by his or her own family. I believe many problems in society are originated from family problems based on my analysis of my life and others who are so called 'psychopath or sociopath' A person tries to fulfill their 'lacks' by depending on other person or somethings. and they abnormally rely on it. But he or she cannot fulfill their lacks. No one or anything makes us happy. It can temporarily make us happy, but it cannot last long, because Everything has its limit and men die, so there should be END. What I found was 'God' and 'Christian community'. I've been here for 1 year and a half, but still I'm not sure if this is 'IT' that I have been searching for. I hope it could be my settlement.