How to Become One's "Good Friend" As the Chinese saying goes:" by being acquainted with each other can you free from suspicious, only without suspicious you can be bosom buddies forever". its totally true and it has become golden rule for me. Every person might confront this situation: unconciously you annoy your friend for they think you did some stupid things to them, meanwhile, you are bewildered by their moods and feel obsessed and depressed at the same time. This situation is not inevitable, so, how can do to avoid it? the first idea comes to me is to hold a modest attitude, donnot be that arbitrary and arrogant, be composed and express your heartfelt emotions to your friend, the second thing i can come up with is to trust ur best buddies, all good relationship based on mutual trust