Say Yes Or No People with low self esteem tend to say "No" to everything around them, but those confident people not always asy "Yes" to everything. A confident man is sure to accurately judge the nature of the thing he meets. That is saying if you always escape from all things you may lose your lover, friends, career, and your life, then if you always say "Yes" you may also make your life mess. Normal doings you should take in, no matter how, human are social animals. You need to talk with people, live with people, even that you may be hurt from them, but do not forget your happiness is also from them. Learn from the people around you if don't know how to chat with man or to make your life more interesting. Life can not remain static. When a lot of people participate in your life, whatever situations it may appear to reality that is certain to leave a mark in your memory. These things constitute all your lives. Coming out from your world, you are not alone.