Ngân
What would happen after breaking up? That was my question last summer when I broke up with my first love. I believed that I could become his friend after that, however, it was really difficult for us to talk to each other. Perhaps, the down side of love is to destroy a friendship. Today, I read a story. The author is a girl. She told that people hardly started a friendship after breaking up because they would never forget their ex. To me, it's 100% right. Somehow, I always have a strange feeling when I meet my ex which make us uncomfortable. There is a fine line between us. Ironically, I couldn't get out of that feeling. People who haven't ever confronted with that difficult situation, they would never understand what I am saying. On the other hand, some people still keep a friendship with their ex. I tried to put myself in their shoes, however, I couldn't figure out the reason. Deep in my heart, I always want to give the best wishes to him even though we couldn't see each other as a friend.
Jul 31, 2015 3:48 PM
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People who remain friends after breaking up, they are either still have lingering feelings or have never fall in love at all. It needs time to heal a broken heart. Take your time, do something that can distract your mind :)
July 31, 2015
Some people manage to stay friends, but it's rarely without a long long time of no contact in between, to let all the feelings settle. It's good to stay apart until you feel that you can be near that person without feeling uncomfortable, and then you got to see if the other person reached that point too.
July 31, 2015
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