Fix some food for you Fix some food for yourself. only youself,then in a big family ,you are obviously too selfish. What you do sometime will take great effect to others. What you say must be suitable .otherwise it will result in unexpected troubles. Your words relect your thoughts your thoughts determine your behaviour. So I think you can eat anything at will ,but you cant not say anything before getting in deep consideration. That is :Look before you leap . Second thoughts are best . Do you agree ?