"I do not want to join the party" would not make as strong an impression on your listener as "I do not want to join your party, PERIOD!" It means something like: I do not want to join the party, and that is my final word! So stop asking me!
If you were writing this, the little dot in "I do not want to join the party." is very difficult to see. But if you write the actual word, the reader will get the meaning that you are very serious and are not going to change your mind.