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would you suicide?

i have this friend of my age, i am 13 she was like 11 when she tried to do that, it was all of depression,
would u do that or take things the way they are?

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    To people that consider suicide I would say that whatsoever is the problem they are facing, suicide isn't a solution.
    If you live, there will be always hope. If you suicide you are just running away from the problems. Suicide is cowardice. Suicide it is not a solution. People that love you will suffer. And, if you die, you will never have the opportunity to be happy in the future, to enjoy live. Life can be wonderful if we learn how to look for happiness.
    And live can be good, in spite of the difficult moments that everybody face here and there. Suffering
    is part of life and we can learn how to endure suffering. Life is made of bad and good moments. In the bad moments, if we just just wait, the better times will come. We must be braves not cowards. We must learn how to endure the difficult moments to enjoy the good ones that, for sure, will come.
    See around you and think about many human being that really have reasons for complaining more than you but they are still struggling. Follow their examples. Be brave, struggle, don't just run away. You can overcome all obstacles, if you really want to. You are stronger than you think you are.
    And look for some professional help. Talk to people that love you or that can help you. Ask for advise about how to face the problems you are facing. There is always light on the end of the tunnel.
    Suicidal tendencies appear often, especially at the age of puberty.
    Its psychological reasons tend to be complicated.
    A very characteristic incidence is that amid the people who are likely for a suicidal attempt all share a common flaw in their behavior towards others; they all feel guilty or partially guilty for not being fair to somebody else.

    Suicide is no solution, it is unorthodox quitting which leaves bitterness and pain to the ones who loved the dead.

    A distinct case is the people who suicide for their nation. Here the motives are definitely the welfare of their nation; killing though has never been a blessed act in most cultures and religions.

    Suicide is not a solution of your problems...
    It is a sin and the one, who do this thing may not to hope for ethernal life, because suicide is the act of none trusting to God, that He may solve your problem if you ask Him...
    If you don't wanna hear about religion, I think that suicide is a sign that you are weak man, and you gived up before the battle of life. Life has many surprises for you... not only good surprises and not only bad. Who promised easy life? No one. Make a step through the window is very easy... make yourself to win every day - it have a cost of labour.
    Back to religion (I may express any my opinion there, right?): I have the one advice for you and your friend: One Person died for you already. You shouldn't die now. Ask for help of this Person, who's name is Jesus Christ. He will help your friend without fall. Just trust Him.

    I was trying to do the same when I was at your age but, thank God, it's really hard to do.

    And know one thing, that you will NOT stop to exist after the death of this temporal body. You will continue to exist, but if you leave your body before the time, you will stay in the in-between condition like a ghost. You will be still covered by your subtle body, mind, but there will not be any gross physical body since you've killed it.

    Tell her friend, that

    Better not do it. Suicide is not a solution.

    Whatever you do, you WILL continue to exist. We just change our bodies. We will continue to exist after our bodies die.

    Life is so short, time goes by so quickly, why make it even shorter. Everyone who has born IS to die. Everyone who has died IS to born again. There's no need to interfere in the nature. At the certain time all of us have to leave our bodies and get another ones.

    We are not our body. We are IN the body. We're the drivers inside of the cars - our bodies, so to speak. When a car crashes, the driver continue to exist.

    So, suicide will produce only more problems and suffering.

    It's better not to leave your friend alone! Try to find out what's the reason of her depression. It can'be either a broken heart or bullying in the school.. take a good care of her!! otherwise it can be too late!!! if it's really serious, maybe it makes sense to tell about it to her parents.
    Terrible question.

    Once upon a time I've eaten all drugs in our home drugbox. and nothing happen. Noone can help you. ONLY YOU.

    If you feel bad read
    The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas
    or
    Nirvana & The Sound of Seattle by Brad Morrell.
    It can help.
    If you die you'll make great evil and grief to you parents, friends, relatives. They will suffer so much. Even if you lost your parents and friends you shouldn't die. It's silly. You will forget your misfortune very soon and you will be happy. Especially in so young age.

    Though if I lose my legs, my arms, my eyes and my ears at war battle or some accident I would want also to die :)

    when i was a little girl, my mum didnot use to talk with me, and life is gone deadful for me i have eaten 3 drugs and i waited death but i slept a full day;)it isnot a useful way for solving problems, we should live bad and good things in our lives, but we mustn't abdicate for feeling alive!
    just that's the way it might be. all people have problems it's inevitable, but anyway they would be solved soon, just u might not to despair and then all be ok. and u, as a friend, must stop your friend for his good.
    Ne auf keinen Fall würd ich sowas machen,
    auch wenn das Leben noch so schlecht läuft,
    verschwende nicht einmal Gedanken für dieses Thema!

    understand? xD

    Commission of suicide is a self-destructive attitude. It starts off with self-pity, followed by self-rejection and ultimately, self-destruction. This act is committed by individuals who harbor the suicidal ideation. They usually pre-meditate doing it. Before the suicide, a personal crisis occurs. The individual feels dejected and despondent. This is preceded by episodes of profound depression, low self-esteem to such an extent that the subject get hopeless and defeated. There may be manifestations such as pacing and involuntary wring of the hands. These are danger signals that could be harbinger to a suicide act.

    Surprisingly, it is one way of coping with stress. However, it is not the solution. Another stunning fact is that most suicidees are mentally unstable. Well after stating all these facts, I will reply. No, I won't because I have the utmost and highest respect for life and I do not have suicidal ideations. There are other approaches to a conflict and giving up, definitely is not one for me. It just doesn't work that way. Suicides are for losers. However, there are noble suicide such as giving up one's life for the sake of others. This one is justified. The person who employs this is a hero or martyr for doing this act in a selfless, altruistic way.

    never

    never

    No!
    We are still so young, even though we meet some difficulties now, we should never be defeated!
    Come on, we have such a long way to go on.
    How could you know that there will be no surprise in the rest of our life?
    No.But I can comprehend people who choose to suicide.They must suffer from the mental or physical problems,may be both respect.But I want to advise people who want to jump from the high buildings go to experience bungee jumping first,and people who want to die in the water throw themselves into the swiming pool to fell the frustration of drowning. May be they will chang the idea.

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