I usually accept them, I have no problem with this, it just depends on the person. For example, I have a very good neighbor who lives with his partner and they are well educated nice men who never get in fights with anyone, them I respect them because they respect me and I love them as if they were my uncles.
But I have a classmate who wears purses, lip gloss and flirts on boys, he is very mean with me and he is always pushing me, cutting in the line and all but he wants us to respect his rights as a gay person, I don't think that just because of this I am not able to defend myself when he does not treat me well and is actually not respecting me, this kind of gay people says that they are acting as women but it is exaggeration, pure female stereotype they follow and a mockery to my gender, this people I don't insult ( unless provoked ) but I don't like.
So you see, it depends on the personality of the person but overall it's good to have your own preference.