Uso del verbo stare in italiano / Use of the verb "stare" in Italian
The other day I reviewed an Italian grammar book. Frankly speaking, the grammar in Italian seems to be a hell lot worse than in French or Spanish, because it combines both of them (such as the formation of compound past tense from French, and the concept of essere [ser] and stare [estar] from Spanish), plus its own particular style (e.g., rules of definite article based on orthography; or the use of both definite article and possessive pronoun to describe a personal belonging)! :(
Then, it comes to the concept of "stare" in Italian. In Spanish (and probably Portuguese), the question regarding the differences between "ser" and "estar" has been raised a number of times by various members. Unfortunately, similar question has not been raised in terms of Italian (at least based on the searched results). Now I have some concerns regarding use of "stare" in Italian.
I would like to know, if one wants to express:
1) a temporary condition (such as "to be sick" or "to be a shop assistant [commesso, -a] as a temporary work position");
2) an emotional feeling (such as "to be happy / sad / angry");
3) the current location of a person / animal / object (such as "to be at the door / under the table / in the bus", etc.);
which verb ("essere" or "stare") should one use?
In Spanish, the answers of the above question is quite clear to me (all as "estar"). However, in Italian, I am not fully sure of the respective answers. Hence, I fully appreciate your precious answers and any constructive suggestions. Many thanks for your kind attention.Dear Andrea: Thank you very much for your precious time, your great help and all the information. Let us wait for more answers and suggestions before closing the matter. Meanwhile, I sincerely wish you a very nice day.
Caro Andrea, Grazie mille per il tuo tempo prezioso, il tuo grande aiuto e anche tutte le informazioni. Aspettiamo più risposte e suggerimenti prima di chiuedere la questione. Intanto, ti desidero sinceramente una molto buona giornata.