It is so hard to love someone .....isn't it ?

以前看的一个经典小故事

A问佛祖“什么是喜欢、什么是爱”

佛祖到他到了一个花园，看到一个小男孩甲路过，看到一朵漂亮的花，很是欢喜，就顺手把它摘下......

接着又来一个小男孩乙，同样被花给吸引，离开花园一阵后，回来给花浇上水.....

佛祖说，你知道了吗？喜欢是占有，而爱是付出

Is it ? 

If u like someone, u would like to hold H(him/her)  tightly and want to get everything from H , u don't care how is the feeling of H .  Even  H is hurt ....

But if u love someone , u would love to set H free and want to give all u have , and always care about H , H's tear,smile,angry.... everything 

Here is no fair in love 

所以后者是很痛苦的

就像歌词唱的“很爱很爱你，所以愿意舍得让你往更高更远的地方飞去”