the way we think

I amalways thinking just about the bad things: how everything will end up very badly, and the result always be like (o m g ) it's more badly than i thought is always worse than I thought. (I think that is the sense of what you're trying to say.)
Mostly, though, I think we must admit that sometimes we have a bad time so that we have to deal with and solve the problem, not just runaway run away. Considering (it might be stronger to say "keep in mind" instead of "consider" or "considering") that everything will be okay, one way or another.