When I tried dating in Asia, I experienced many frustrations, hardships and culture shock. 东方尋恋, 我经历 多次郁结, 艰难与文化差异. I found that when people are not interested in you, 現知若他方对你无意, they just stop communicating with you; 来往断绝, they don't message you often, 发信不常, they don't ask to meet you again. 再也不与你相会, They just ignore you, in hoping that you understand they are not interested; 以无音无信, 让你了解真情. it really frustrates me. 令我非常心魂喪气 Rejection in general is painful to deal with. 被厌弃是人生难接受的. However, in western culture we will be direct; 但在西方文化, we will just tell the person directly how we feel. 以直接非曲来表示己意.
When in Rome, do as the Roman does. Have to change your outlook on how to deal with things oriental.