to be hoest,it is not a easy work for everyone if you try to become a well parter in the family.in china,especially, it is a hard work for every person.generally, in term of economy you have to earn enough money for your family,and then you should take a perfect temperament in the daily life.additionally,hansome is also a important way . In our country , you must spend lot of time on your own career if you wantn't to lost you job.your manager told you that your cellphone must keep on line all the time even in your holiday.so every one have a heavy stress ,you can see immediately on their face.