1.2 The Security needs    

    If the physiology needs to be adequately met, then there will be a whole new set of needs, and we can attribute them to safety needs (safety, stability, dependence, intimidation, anxiety and chaos. The requirements of the order, the law, the boundaries, the requirements for the strength of the protector, and so on).Maslow argues that "the whole organism is a mechanism for the pursuit of safety, human receptors, effects organs, intelligence and other energy are mainly tools for the search for safety, and even the scientific and outlook on life can be seen as part of the need to meet security needs ". Of course, when this need is met after the relative satisfaction, it will no longer be an incentive factor. In a male dominant age, women's safety is no guarantee, from an early age they live in apprehension, parents rarely guarantee their safety, and some even as a worker to make up or even beaten by their parents, or sell to the factory to work, married as after their husband as a cheap labor, there is no status and voice, The words of her husband is the order, Often get home violence, no sense of security.“Even if the wife made a small mistake, beaten is also right and proper”，This is the deep-rooted idea of Nazneen, and the deep-rooted idea of the entire Bangladeshi women at the time, and they were educated at an early age. At the time of the male-dominated society, women were obedient and absolutely obedient and never had any Ideas, of course, there will be no hope that the only thing they can do is to open the "Koran" and pray for Allah. Some people have to meet their physiological needs have been very good, security needs is that they almost do not think about things.Compared to other Bengal women, Nazneen belongs to the particularly lucky one, because her husband Chanel basically will not hit her, even if she has nothing to do, Chanel did not "Show any signs of going to hit her" (第13页），in the Chanel´s eyes,  Nazneen is "working hand", "if she was wrong" Chalu "will “feel very shocked", her husband Chanel, was a man who had been very high, but struggled for more than three decades in Britain. Chanel is studying in the UK and is well educated and has a great ambition. However, it seems that the fortune is not good. "The degree will never fail, and the title will never be made. The jar 's house will never be built, and the jute business will never be open, and even the mobile library, for which it will be forgotten, will be forgotten.(第90页)Nazneen's summary of Chanel is "just say no". Chanel read a lot, the idea is also a lot, but always contrary to reality. He is always talking about his return to his hometown, and he is against the land that he has sojourned, and this country is like that in the confrontation with Mrs. Azad on "assimilation and alienation" , Always talking to many of the many Nazneen do not understand the speech to tell her, but do not give her any explanation, her husband thought open, in his own words is "now I have Westernization of the "will not interfere with the daily life of Nazneen, but this performance will make her feel particularly bottomless, no sense of security, which in the end is the husband's trick or to disdain for her, she did not know , Perhaps Chanel just want her to give birth to a child to pass their own family.In such a frightened day Nazneen ushered in his first child Rajib, but Rajib died because of a sick, it can be said that the death of Rajib is the turning point of the full text, but also Nazneen The self-consciousness is a crucial step in awakening, and before the death of Rajib, she has been praying to Allah, hoping that her child can survive, but no matter how praying is useless. Loss of Rajib to promote her own thinking, although their own security did not receive any threat, but she began to question the existence of God, pray to Allah really useful? Life is really so fragile, my mother taught her from the "resignation" is really right, regardless of their own safety laissez-faire, or rely on anyone to protect their own security work? Is this kind of thinking, Nazneen in the unconscious began to have their own consciousness, her heart planted seeds that have been quietly budding.