مما هو الوحم و الوحام بالفرنسي اوالفنلندي

Hello everybody It's really diffecult to speak english,i was thinking that it is easy, but after i start meeting  English people i found that i can never understand any word.
i noticed that my english is like french or they were talkin so quickly.
when they start speaking with me it appears on my face a lot of questions and exclamation markes, so they start slowly again word by word...
Do all learners have this problem?