Hola.
I would say:
Get in the car or get into the car....is fine. The last "ON" is never used unless you want someone on top of the car. 😁 Which would be unsafe and I don't suggest anyone riding on top of a vehicle.
For the last three:
I should be home
I should be at home
"I should be in home" is the wrong preposition to use and sounds unnatural.
Hope that helps. Tengas un buen dia.