Ashley is a name for boys as well as girls. There are a lot of names like that in English that can be used for both sexes, so it's not a big deal. They're all reasonably common, really only you can decide.

Amanda is a nice one I like Lily though as a name or Julie.

Note that there is no such name as 'Amenda'.

Amanda is common name, though.

I like Mandy, from Amanda.  But there are so many beautiful names.  You just can't go wrong.

From the three names you have there, I would have to go with Claire.

Amanda is a nice one .