Man and their Ego.
Based on my experience, and as a woman, I can conclude that most men react better to negative stimuli than positive ones.
It's not in my nature to treat them badly, but I must confess that this inconsistency in them, in which I have been involved on several occasions, has caused me at some point want to be a bad person.
Personally I have found that while women are more flattering, more indifference provoke on them. That is, to flatter them by telling them that they are unique, beautiful and blah blah blah, we impact at its most vulnerable part: the ego. We give fuel to forget for a while about us and roam the streets trying, consciously or unconsciously, check their "manhood" and "male beauty". Of course they do not know that we do it because is a part of our complacent nature, but God! They really take it very seriously!
The negative stimulus would come when we get angry after being "abandoned", while they were distracted being irresistible.
The result to this is usually a harmless and repented man promising not to do it again.
While the positive stimulus that we provoked to them, all flattering thing, we never see any positive reaction.
I insist. I want my alien.
And sorry for my orthographic mistakes.
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Hey Melina, this is quite an interesting notebook entry! You write very well, and there were only a few mistakes.
Men and their Egos.
Based on my experience, and as a woman, I can conclude that most men react better to negative stimuli than positive ones.
It's not in my nature to treat them badly, but I must confess that this inconsistency in them, in which I have been involved on several occasions, has caused me at some point to want to be a bad person.
Personally I have found that while women are more flattering, men are more indifferent (Im not sure what you mean, but I think you here, so I just changed it). That is, if we flatter them by telling them that they are unique, beautiful and blah blah blah, we impact them at their most vulnerable part: the ego. We give them fuel to forget about us for a while (moved the order of the words) and roam the streets trying, consciously or unconsciously, to check show off (better word choice) their "manhood" and "male beauty". Of course they do not know that we do it because it is a part of our complacent nature, but God! They really take it very seriously!
The negative stimulus would then come when we get angry after being "abandoned" while they were distracted by being irresistible.
The result of this is usually a harmless and repenting man promising not to do it again.
While we use positive stimulus to provoke them with all flattering things, we never see any positive reaction.
I insist. I want my alien.
And sorry for my orthographic mistakes.
Great job! I don't agree with all of your points, but then again, I do not have a lot of experience with such things. Keep practicing, you are doing well! :)
Erik~
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As a psychology major who has studied relationship psychology and Marriage and Family Therapy in my undergraduate degree, I can tell you that your opinions are accurate for a majority of the male population. However, there are always exceptions to the rule, so don't loose hope of finding a better candidate.
Also, with the idea of negative vs. positive comments, the behaviorist school of psychology holds that people always respond better to positive reinforcement instead of negative reiforcement or punishment. In practical terms, this could mean that men's "ego's" are fragile because they have a fundamental need to be *respected* and *admired* instead of criticized or threatened. There is a popular counseling book entitled "the five love languages" that explains these principles in more detail.
But I do not want to burden you with explanations; so overall, well said!
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Gracias! :))
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i want my alien too! well said
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You succeded in getting my attention, Melina.
So, perhaps you are right. :)
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