Generally, to be seen as a leader is to be seen in a positive light. After all, you can't be a leader if no-one follows you. And if others follow you they must believe in what you stand for. Dictators, tyrants and bullies are another matter - people cower and give in to them, but not out of respect, out of fear. Some people are put in positions of leadership but are not suited to the role and ultimately fail - they may technically be considered in charge, but no-one considers them a leader. Others don't officially have any title or rank, yet when things go wrong, they naturally step up and take control and lead their team out of trouble. If the people who willingly follow you consider you their leader, then you are.