i think ,no matter who is western or eastern man , which attacts me first is full of responsibility and knowledgeable. And i also want to raise a question: what is it about a chinese woman that attacts a western man first?

personally, i think the most important is he loves me ,and then he should be honest , considerate and reliable . objectively, he should have a job.

You forgot to ask What it is about US men and many other western men being attracted to whichever kind of men they're attracted to... Think outside the box, sweetheart. :)

In my opinion, chinese women are more traditional than western women. So they want to own a stable marriage. And in chinese culture, two person live together need much compromise and tolerance. It's more important than rich and good looking i think. It's totally different from western

i don't think someone with rich or goodlooking can attract sb, i think that can not be real love.first ,i think a man shuold be responsible to their life .especially his wife and chirld .second ,i think a man should be brave .He can do something by himself without sorrow .and he can be confident for himself .third, i think a man shoulde care for her family .be repective to their parents. i think he shouldbe rational . lastly . the man who has the same interest and hobby with me .