I wonder... why does people (mostly) prefer to do a language exchange with the opposite sex partner?

I have a question about crisis financial in each countries, who is establish crisis in your country? America, Europe. maybe England or Germany, Africa, United Emirates Arab, China or even in Russia? Like in my country, Indonesia, there is a comittee who establish crisis, which is our Central Bank had to recommendation about this crisis to that comittee to establish crisis financial in Indonesia

I have this problem for these weeks lately... actually I have so much work to do, exam, papers, presentation, and thesis also another thesis revision but I feel like my brain want to explode and I feel like I need free :( and I'm bored and tired to do these things, give me tips how to stay productive but I still can relax and enjoying my work without boring, help :(

Do you have idiom in your own language? If yes, write it and translate into English! :D