Chinese Type Wedding Ceremony( PLS CORRECT, THANKS) Last weekend, one of my college roommates Z married. She met her bf G in high school, and G stopped his long run with Z, finally became a wonderful couple. When children planed to get marry, their parents would choose a good even date for them. Z’s lucky day was 26 July. Usually, girls’ parent will prepare household appliances, furnitures and quilts( “quilt” sounds like “forever” in Chinese, parents want the new couple live a happy life ) as wedding gifts. We called the gifts “dowry”. Z got up at 5:00 am in the morning of 26 July, and the makeup artist finished a bride makeup for her at 8:30am. At 9: 58 am, the escort team of bridegroom came to bride’s home. They had to pick up the bride before 12:00am, because Chinese thought that it was unlucky if the picking time was after 12:00am. When G arrived, we played tricks to trouble him. We asked the bridegroom to sing songs to express his love, and ask funny question, like who was the boss if Z married him. Finally, we opened the door for G. In accordance with the local tradition, G needed to wash Z’s feet, dress her in new red socks and red shoes. The bath water must be poured one the ground of yard, this meant, “A married out daughter is like spilt water.” The rocks and shoes indicated the new life. Next, it was time for taking pictures of Z and her parents and grandparents. Then Z’s brother carried Z on his back to the wedding car, and G carried Z out of the car to in his arms when the car arrived G’s house. During this phase, the feet of bride mustn't touch the ground. G hold Z to the marital bed. What i was gonna to say was the bed, it was strewed with red dates, peanuts, longans and lotus seeds, which meaned celebrate the new couple birth a health baby early. Then we came to the hotel where they were going to hold the wedding ceremony. The wedding ceremony were pretty the same with western style. I guess there were only two difference. Chinese new couple needed three kowtows. The first kowtow was for the heaven and earth, the second for the parents and the third for each other! Before the new couple toasted to the guests in turn, the bride shall change the white wedding dress to Chinese traditional cloth--qipao. When the wedding conductor announced that the wedding ceremony ended, and the guest began to eat. After After we finished the food, then we said goodbye to the new couple and expressed our wishes.

My Recent Life 我最近的生活 I'm in such a crap mood recently. I guess that hot weather have influenced my feelings. Last saturday, I watched a movie called Blind Detactive starring Andy Lau and Sammi Cheng. Andy Lau was my type when i was a student. Lol.. It kept raining from 1 July to 7 July in my city. Especially on Sunday, it rained dog and cat, but i went out for shopping a air-condition and that cost me 2080 RMB. The surprising thing was that the price of an air-condition was 10000+ RMB. I mean, are they crazy? Spend 10000 RMB to buy a air-condition? Was it made of gold? On my way back, I met a jerk. A ugly old-aged man kept staring at my boobs in the bus. what a gross! He's so old, and he could be my grandpa. I had to stay away from him as possible. When i came back home, my cloth were wet. From my shoes to my hair! I was unluckly! Hope something could change in my life.

Is It Possible To Love Two Totally Different Guys At The Same Time? This Means War. PLS CORRECT Yesterday, I watched the movie This Means War. This was the third time i watched it. And I really love these kinds of romantic comedy spy movies. This Means War tells a story about two CIA agents FDR and Tuck, who are partners and best friends, fall for the same one career woman Lauren at same time. Lauren feel guilty about seeing two men, and does’t know how to choose, because she loves them equally. In order to win and get Lauren, the leading men FDR and Tuck try everything, including spy on her to find her thoughts. Even they have a gentleman agreement, but they have a fall out and fight over Lauren. Finally, Lauren has decided to to be with FDR in a emergency, and FDR reconciles with Tuck. When i searched the movie, I found a very interesting Critical response from a Chinese best-selling author and screenwriter Lu Qi. He said like this, “Some girls ask me what should she do if two men love her? Choose the one you loved. What if I love them both? Pick the rich one. What if both are rich? Choose the one has strong sexuality. What if both of them are good in bed? Wake up, girls. Why don’t you walk away and let the men making a wonderful couple? None of your business any more. ” In my opinion, girls would never love two men equally at the same time. She loves this man, but her feeling for another one would be not love, more of like or favor. But it does exist that she loves two men in different time, and my suggestion is picking the last one you loved. If you loved the former one, you would not fall in love with anyone else. 昨天看《特工争风》，这是我第三次看这部电影。因为我很喜欢关于特工爱情的这类喜剧电影。 特工争风讲的是两个既是搭档又是最好朋友的CIA探员FDR和塔克，同时爱上事业女强人萝拉。和他们两个男人同时约会，使萝拉感觉到很内疚，但是她不知道怎么选择，因为这两个男人她都爱。为了赢得萝拉的芳心，FDR和塔克尝试了一切方法，甚至包括监听萝拉获取她的爱好。尽管之前他们达成了君子协议，但是他们还是闹翻了，并且大打出手。 最终紧急情况下，萝拉选择和FDR在一起，FDR和塔克和好如初。 当我在网上搜这部电影的时候，发现了中国著名作家、编剧陆琪的一个评价。他这样说“有人问，两个男人同时追求应该怎么选？选你爱的那个啊。两个都一样爱怎么选？选有钱的那个啊。两个都有钱怎么选？选性能力好的那个啊。两个性能力都很好怎么选？醒醒吧，姑娘，让这两个男人在一起吧，这里面没你什么事儿了。” 我认为女孩是不会同一时间均等地爱上两个人。她可能爱一个，但对另一个的感觉绝不是爱，更多的应该是喜欢或好感。但是她在不同时间爱上两个人确实存在，我建议选择后来的那个。因为如果你爱之前一个人，就不会再爱其他人

Who Should Make The First Step In The Beginning Of A Relationship? ( Please Correct, Thanks A Lot) Recently, one of my best friends, Yuan gets confused, because she falls in love with her colleague Lu. Precisely speaking, it is more than a secret love. She talks with me on QQ, “I get hurt. He treats me like a common colleague.” “This maybe because he does’t know you have a crush on him. Why don’t you just go ahead, and tell him about your feelings? ” She questions, “what if he does’t like me? Or even dislike me?” I reply, “honey, everyone likes you. You are smart and beautiful. So be confident.” She argues, “if he likes me, he would come to me. It should be always boys come to girls.” Then I get nothing to say, because I totally agree with her point of men making the first move, but I suggest that she could give him a hint. So good luck, my friend. If a girl shows love to a boy, does he think that she is too open-mind? 最近，我的一位好姐妹袁很是困惑，因为她爱上了他的同事陆。 准确地说来，这是一场暗恋。 她在QQ上和我聊天说，“我觉得很受伤，他待我像普通同事一样。” “这可能是因为他不知道你喜欢他。你为嘛不直接大胆地向他坦白心迹呢” 她反问我，“他要是不喜欢我怎么办？甚至讨厌我呢？” 我劝说：“亲爱的，每个人都喜欢你，因为你聪明漂亮，所以自信点啦。” 她争论到：“假如他喜欢我，他会来找我。不都是男人过来找女孩的吗？” 然后我就无话可说了，因为我完全同意她关于应该是男性迈出第一步的观点，但是我建议她可以给他暗示。 希望她好运。 假如是女孩向一个男孩表明心迹，男孩会不会觉得这个女孩太开放了？

What Do You Think About Chinese Girls? 你是怎样看待中国女孩的？pleasure correct. thanks About two days ago, i talked with a russian man. The first words he talked to me was" do u beat ur husband?" i felt very strange and answered," no, i don't beat anyone, and i don't get marry. why do u ask that question?" He repied,"In russia, we think that chinese wife often beats her husband." I explained, " it was a rediculer. I've never heard that. u r the first one who said that. Have any chinese girls ever beat u or hit u with bad language?" He replied no. "u see. it was just a rumor. chinese girls are not devils. we don't eat people, nor drink blood. we are a common group, kind of like tender and soft russian girls." i said. what do u think about chinese girls? 大概两天以前，我和一个俄罗斯男人聊天。 他问候我的第一句话就是，“你打你的丈夫吗？” 我感觉很是奇怪，回答道：“不，我从不打任何人，而且我也没有结婚。你为什么问这个问题？” 他回复到，“在俄罗斯，我们认为中国妻子会经常打她丈夫。” 我解释说，“太不可理喻了。我从没听说过中国妻子打老公的事，而且你也是第一个这样告诉我的人。请问有中国女孩打过你，或是用脏话骂过你吗？” 他说没有。 我说，“你看，这只是个谣言。中国女孩不是魔鬼，我们不吃人肉，不喝人血。我们和温柔的俄罗斯姑娘一样。” 你是怎样看待中国女孩的？

一个很有趣的现象an interesting phenomenon i find a very interesting problem, that is "do foreigers eat melon seeds? or only chinese love to eat melon seeds?". if watch carefully, u shall find that chinese like to crack open melon seeds when they chat. this scene happens a lot in chinese movies and tv series. and we have many different flavors for choosing. but i've never saw anyone eating melon seeds in amercian movies, or korean movies. is this funny? i wonder do foreigners eat melon seeds, or they just don't like melon seeds at all? 我发现一个很好玩的问题，那就是，外国人吃瓜子吗？还是只有中国人才爱吃瓜子？ 如果你细心观察的话，就会发现中国人闲聊的时候，喜欢嗑瓜子。 在中国的电影、电视剧中，这个场景经常出现。 而且我们有不同口味的瓜子可供挑选。 但是在美国电影和韩国电影中，我从未发现有人吃瓜子。 是不是很好玩？ 我很好奇外国人吃瓜子吗？还是他们压根就不喜欢瓜子？