a translation for an article written by Dr. Homam Yahya.

There are 2 basic components the man observes in the woman, even if he didn’t intend to.

1-      Her beauty

2-      The noise around her beauty

Every woman makes some noise around her beauty in different types and shapes with an originality and diversity. What the man does is to compare her beauty with the noise around it, and it provokes him so much to see a difference between their levels.

For example, some women make a noise that exceeds her beauty level, the man observes that merrily because this woman is a wonderful one to play with, to hang out with. This high noise means that there is an area to play outside the danger. There is no doubt that dragging the opponent to the dangerous area is the final goal, but this high noise means that there is a wide area and there is some time, and let’s play and have fun for a while, a little fun never harms, no one knows what will happen and no one needs to know that.

 This type of women fits the gadabout poets and some unsatisfied husbands and some other men.

But there are some women make noise lesser than their beauty level, and that type of women – especially if she was so beautiful – needs a different kind of approach, an approach filled with care and caution.

The first thing this type of women affects in the man is making him feel with discontent. He thinks that she should make a higher noise than her beauty or equal to it at least, this is an important condition to start, but if the noise lesser, it will be harmful. Why?

Because it would be an announcement about a self-sufficient beauty and it doesn’t need any noise around it,  in other words: a conceited beauty. Or it will be a faith to some lover who obtain all of the noise to himself and left nothing to others but the cold silence.

So when a man asks a woman of this type: is there any guy in your life? practically he is asking her : where is your noise? Are you hiding it for some guy?

And here we can make an inference: a woman with high noise is mostly not in a relationship. And when the man doesn’t feel necessary to ask her that question, that means he is saying to the woman tacitly: your noise is high enough to assure that you are not in a relationship.

Let’s get back to the probability of low noise of a very beautiful woman, in addition of to the conceited beauty and the hidden noise for some guy, there is a dangerous prospect: she may have a former relationship with a man ended with failure, and to say it in the same context it would be: her noise had been expelled once, or a volcano full of love and noise had exploded and it seems the timing was wrong. 

Here, the volcano of noise becomes quiet, the hours stops, the age is locked up in a moment and a soul compression happened like a black hole eating an old star.