“喜欢的女孩子永远追不到手，不喜欢的女孩子每天都在骚扰”, this sentence is from a writing training book which I got in around 2006, which means "never be able to get the girl who (I) like, and girl who (I) hate are harrassing me everyday", and I guess some females have similar problems. I remember this sentence for a long time till now. I wanted to put it before; and today I thought of it again and put it here finally. Also I think it is not really a main problem of life and there are some many other things waiting me to do. Though it is a big problem which is discussed in the first paragraph, and hope people respect one another. Also not to be too picky, because maybe you may miss a nice miss/gentlemen and then regret. I think I will not regret though for many if not all of my decisions. I am not that excellent but I feel good of myself. But it is hard to make decisions for others because I do not know if they will change their minds. How do you think?

How do you think about domestic violence?

I want to work with Robert. 我想和Robert一起工作。 I met Robert about four years ago, and now I am very worried of him. 我约四年前遇见了Robert，我现在很担心他。 I want to work with Robert. 我想和Robert一起工作。 Or I hope there are some ways which can let me meet him more often. 或者我希望能有什么方法更经常见到Robert。 I am so useless for Robert and I make him help me but I usually do not help him. 对Robert来说我太没用了，我总是让他帮我，我却几乎帮不上他的忙。

What will you do to person who reports immoral/illegal thing that your relative or your friend do? As described in the quetion: What will you do to person who reports immoral/illegal thing that your relative or your friend do? Thanks.

Questions I want to know for a long time... About some episodes of Black Mirror...

One episode is about a male hurted/killed his wife which reflects reading memory can bring side effects, and my question is that I think the memory is not totally reliable and maybe the man misunderstood his wife and made a wrong decision. 

Another episode is a couple killed a little girl and people abused the women of the couple thinking abusing is justice, but I personally think the little girl is the couples' real daughter and the justice park is a lie... Lie here means other person(s) killed the little girl, and also it is why they let the woman to lose some memory incase she spoke out the truth, but the woman still had some memory and every detail she remembered later made sense (she did have come across same things before so she felt she were familiar with some things, which is a proof of that the girl is very possible if not must really is her daughter.).

I guess I may be wrong, but maybe nothing wrong to discuss about it...

What do you think of "君子之交淡如水"？Thank you!

Personally, I think I will not force others' friendship must be "淡如水", but I think I prefer friendship which is "淡如水".

Not For Correction (7) -- Is He Living or Is He Dead? By Mark Twain " 'Well, then, by way of preamble I will ask you to note this fact in human history: that the merit of many a great artist has never been acknowledged until after he was starved and dead. This has happened so often that I make bold to found a law upon it. This law: that the merit of every great unknown and neglected artist must and will be recognised and his pictures climb to high prices after his death. My project is this: we must cast lots--one of us must die.' "

Some problems I met and am meeting with (我遇见过的和正在遇到的问题) ... Problem 1: Should we avoid using terms of endearment when we are communicating with persons who are usually serious? (I think I should because I think once I made a person uncomfortable by using it though I must use terms of endearment at that moment because of that I was just trying to translate what he wrote.) 问题一：与通常很严肃的人打交道时我们应该避免使用亲密用语吗？ （我认为我应该，因为某次，虽然是出于翻译某人写的东西的缘故我不得不使用亲密用语，但是我觉得那个人对此感到不舒服。） Problem 2: Is it corret that "You can get a peaceful mind if you do not care what others do"? (I think on some very special occasions if you do not care anything then you are just being indifferent but not being peaceful.) 问题二：“不理会别人做什么，你就可以有一个平和的心态。”这种想法对吗？ （在某些很特殊的场合下如果什么都不在意那么实际上你只是冷漠而已。） Problem 3: Is talking about books, or talking about the daily, weekly... plans, etc. an annoying thing to some persons? (My personal ideas but I feel that I would like to share these kinds of things if there are persons who welcome these topics.) 问题三：谈论书籍，或者讨论每日、每周……计划，等等，这类话题对某些人来说很烦人吗？ （我个人想法：我愿意和欢迎这类话题的人谈论这类事。） Problem 4: Can you suggest me some good topics which I can talk with others? (For example -- What are the most popular games now?) 问题四：可以推荐一些和他人交谈的好话题吗？ （例如——现在最红的游戏是什么？）

How can I express "谁要送谁" in English? Thank you very much!