If you could know something about the future, what would you choose to know about and why? If I have the chance to know one thing about the future,the very question that I want do ask is that who my wife is and what the sort of woman she is ?Some one may suggests that ,in order to lead a happier life,your spouse is not so important to you as yourself, however,I strongly assert that my wife will be an indispensable part of my future life ,without whom my life will become totally different. No one can would deny the fact that most of us will have a marriage in the future and the woman who will be your wife,no matter who she is, to a great degree,will impact your life orientation. As far as I am concerned,a couple is not simply a collection of two individuals,but as a matter of fact ,a closely interconnected and interweaved group or organism.That is to say,you two individuals are turning into a new element in the society,and most of the time,the decision each of you two makes will affect your future.Just take my friend Qingmei for example,she was once a model living in China,also, she loved her job so much that she had never thought that she would one day leave the country and give up her beloved job.However,once she traveled to Australia and met a young boy there who love her so much,they fell in love soon and at last, Qingmei decides to marry the boy leave her former occupation. In the second place,individual’s character or hobbies are the things that can decide whether two young people can come together and go on enjoying their lives, regardless of their jobs,nationalities,appearances,ages,statures.If I have the chance to know what sort of people my wife will be ,then I will understand what her characters are and what led to her current characters.In fact,each kind character has its own merits and shortcomings,both of which will decide a man’s or woman’s behavior or choice.What’s more ,the reason what I suggests that the hobbies or my to-be –wife is so critical is that ,if we share the same hobbies or habbits, we will have a better chance of be happier.Accordingly ,if we don’t have so many traits or hobbies in common,then I must take action and try my best to adjust myself to her style ,such as reading her favourite books,listening her enjoyed music,visiting her hometown and alma mater,learning to cook her loved dishes and so on.In this way, at the time we live together, I can always keep her pace and diminish the unnecessary conflicts between us in everyday life .