where should i travel to during the new year? there are 3 options I planed: 1. hongkong. +Film paradise. I've never been there, but I was grown up by watching lots of hongkong films, it's a special memory box +Shoppingcenter. People says hongkong is the heaven of shopping. Though i'm not keen to shopping, but sometimes I'm also interested in beautiful things and desire it. +cheap flugticket. I checked the prise in the qunar, I can fly from shanghai to hongkong - I don't have "hongkong, macau passport", it's a special book that will be checked by policeman when inlander go into hongkong. It takes me 15 days to get it. - When I didn't book the ticket on time, the prise will changed, as the new year coming, there must be lots of people to go to hongkong for "New Year Discount Season" - The prise of the hotel is very expensive, the cheaper one are really not good. Even the Youth Hostel are almost full, already out of order:( - I don't have friend who will go with me. Most people around me are more focusing on saving money, there is nobody who can set his/her HEART free... 2. Xiamen + I was heard it was a nice place. just heard - I really dont know too much about it, just know it's a seaside city. But i've been in Qingdao and Dalian for many years(both are famous tourism seaside city) 3. Xi'an + Wedding of my cousine. my cousine will get married during the new year + I can visit some old friends, because Shaanxi is my hometown. My best male friend also works there. + I can meet my family and relatives. - The flugticket is expensive, even now. - I were there last year, dont want to go again... well, now i don't know how to choose, 3 of them are quite fair, no one has the preferance. I'm waiting for ur advice, tks!

I'm so tried It's really not easy for a girl to work in the machine industry, as a small engineer, so many things to do, i have to work 10 h or more every day!! It drives me crazy, the most horriable thing is I also have to fight with some men because of work. I hope I can come over this hard time, come on !

hallo?servus? od. Gruess Gott? wer kann mir erklaeren, gibt es Unterschied zw. diese drei Saetze fuer Begruessung? Ich habe schon erfahren, "gruess Gott" ist besonders in Bayer verwendet. Aber die Reste weiss ich nicht. Danke im Voraus!

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People hat to get used to loneliness Just moved to Munich today. But it was almost raining all the time, after setteling down in the hotel, I went out to find something to eat. Luckily Munich is a big country, well, complared with other german cities, a lot of pizza stores, but I want to get some hot chinese or asian food. Finally I found one in the subway passage, it was a Thailand resteraut, not too much people, so I sat there, ate alone, especially it was a asian resterant. It's been almost 3 months, I do really miss my family, and chinese food!! Last week Ewa, the wife of a friend show me her visit in shanghai the year 2010, suddenly her eye just focusing on a point, which seems so far away then spoke slowly, but not everyone could live there, it's just a two week visit, then I missed my caffee, my bread, my Broetchen, my garden, my family. I smiled, I've alredy lived here for 3 month. Then she hugged me, and we laughed at each other. Well, sometimes loneliness is good, it's the best way for you to be quite, and think about sth.But sometimes it's really LANGWEILIG and like a touque for me, I dont want to stay in the hotel, so just went out, feeling the bad weather, while it was still raining, making the T-shirt wet. All seems hopeless, waiting for next week to see friends!

"woher kommst du?" od."wo kommst du her?" manche Deutsche fragt meine Nationalitaet, aber sie verwenden verschiedenen Saetze, welche ist richtig?

what you think of ons(one night stand)? well, though as a traditional chinese girl, i'm not traditional in mind~ When I travelled around the europe, I found sex is so normal in european culture, even a serious man can tell a horny joke 囧, but it's intresting to know another culture. But for ons, I can't stand this attitude to love, what about you?well, it's just a open discussion, i hope to hear different kind of voice and opinion, but it doesnt mean that i did it! plz dont take it in person ~ thanks!

Why man are so easy to get jealous? My friend just got break up with her bf, just because she met a new boy during travellilng. Then her bf got jealous, he's an australian man, who I thought should be open-minded... I think it's not fair, why men can always met new womens and watch naked women shows, otherwise women should only stay around her bf or husband, shouldnt make new friends? Das ist doch bloed!

I really want to go back home!!! It's already 2 and a half month here in Europe, I really got homesick, especially today, I really want to go back home, see my family. Last weekend I was travelling in Berlin, the capital of Germany. But I really dont like big cities, so many people, totally different from south, quiet countys everywhere. I visited some museum, it's really an amazing experience, unforgetable. Then something's happened, I'm really sad, and cried so much. Berlin ist eine traurige Stadt... Then I went to Dresden, there is one very good friend, we learned German together, it's a boring but sweet time. We never thought we can meet in Germany so soon~~~Dresden is so beautiful while we were riding bicycles around the Elbe river. The only tough thing is that bike, I'm too short to reach the pedal, it's really designed specially for german! Then we went to Phaenton's glass factory, it's my dream, visiting all car museums in Germany, now i just complete three~ After a tried daytravell, we went back home, and made dumplings together with her roommates, a very good boy and a very cute girl~It's the first time I had jiaozi in Germany!! I feel so good with friends, we can talk whatever we like, gossiping, laughing, make jokes to each other. The next day we went to an old resteraut in Dresden, she used her self-earned money as hiwi to pay it. I'm really touched about that... But I have to go back south, there'r still work for me, if not, i'd really wish to stay longer. While the time to say goodbye, we were almost crying, we cant see the face of each other...... I went to south last night. Today I feel so bad, so soso tried, and sad. I think I really got homesick, here is too quiet, I really cant figure out why german seems always stay home, I can hardly see people in the street after 18.00! It's a boring day, I hope tomorrow will be better.